Report to the INS-DHS about my Russian Wife

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I have been told by many that I have too good of a heart, I will give my last dollar to someone in need. Guess that's how I fell into this. As a victim of this marriage scam, I was not totally Innocent. I knew going into this if it lasted five years it would be an honest marriage in many peoples eyes, even though it originally started out just to get a mother and a child out of Russia. What I did not expect when my wife left, was her resolve to break a (step) father-son bond. It made me look at myself differently and left such a gut empty feeling, which I know the child felt. When she left, I had no problems with that, I figured that I will spend time with the child when he wants and when it is okay with his mother, in return I would have paid for his college. I never expected her refusal to allow the child to see any family members, myself, friends. I felt not only his loss and hurt, I started to feel for the biological father, and knowing what was being said about me, was the same story line told to me by my wife to get her and child here, in the illegal way it was.
At the same time I didn't understand her motives to block myself. my partner, and investors from a potential long term contract with Ikea. I learned why, but at this time I can not say.
With all these things in motion, time and again, I knew that something had to be done. The problem I had was, would it be in the best interest of the child. I was 3 months short of falling under the step parent laws in Illinois when she left. I took myself out of the picture, did a reality check, and talked about this with a local minister.
There was only one choice here, report this matter to the I.N.S. That was the hardest decision of my life. At first I did not want to think about that, but as the Ikea possibilities were put on hold, because of her actions, knowing how the child and I felt. Left me thinking, how many times will the child go through this? Everyday I thought about what happen to the biological father and his loss of his son. It was too much of a burden. Not only did I report this matter, I searched for the biological father. Doing these actions has caused considerable damage, not only financially, but legally also. I know if things were different, I would have never thought about the biological father or the action I took to report this. Maybe with many Russian people compassion is something they do not have, I don't know. One e mail I received said this " Scammers have no problem pissing in the well after they take a drink from it.

Update Letter from The U.S. Consulate Feb 07 2007

Consular, Yekaterinburg"
To:
truereason2003@yahoo.com

Mr. Green,

Thank you for following up; it sounds as though you are still in contact with the biological father, and I’m glad to hear you are able to communicate with him effectively. In reality, however, I must tell you that the wheels of justice in cases like this turn extremely slowly, and although proceedings against your former wife will eventually result in deportation or otherwise, the most expedient option is for you, and the biological father is to communicate and make sure that each understands the others’ position. I realize that this response is probably frustrating, but that fact is that she and her son have been living in the U.S. for awhile now, and aliens residing in the U.S. have a right to due process that can drag complicated cases on for years.

I have submitted information about this case to the proper office in DHS, and any attempts to adjust her immigration status will be flagged for review in light of all of these circumstances. At this point, there is nothing more that the Department of State can do for the biological father.

Good luck,
Jeffrey Hulse

(Note* Immigration Status = Application for citizenship, Divorce, Annulment, etc. All documents should be forwarded to DHS)